Loving hearts also sometimes part – when feelings fade away, and this is a very sad statistic of ordinary life. But at the same time, it often happens that a woman continues to experience attachment to a man, which she is unable to get rid of, which is why she suffers greatly. Of course, you can turn to psychological methods of dealing with your own negative emotions: occupy your time with work, friends, hobbies, it’s good if you have children - they will certainly distract you from sad thoughts and force you to find a new meaning of existence. But what to do if you are left completely alone and you feel that your ex-lover has sunk into your soul so much that it is simply impossible not to think about him? In this case, it is worth trying unconventional methods, for example, a lapel or a lapel prayer on how to forget a man - the most effective of them.
You will need spring water, but it is better if you have the opportunity to go to a river, stream, lake - any natural body of water. At dawn, you need to wash your face with this natural water, go somewhere into an open space and say the following words: “I will wash away the bitter melancholy with clean water, not from my face, but from my whole soul. The sister water will take away my sadness and drown it deep in the blue sea. Amen!" You can say a prayer through a wide open window if you live in a city apartment.
You can also try another version of the ritual. During the waning moon, take a photo of your lover, put a slice of stale black bread in front of him, close all the doors, turn off the phone, remove strangers and pets. Now focus on the photo and slowly, clearly say the prayer: “May my heart harden, like this bread, towards the servant of God (name of the man), may my blood freeze when I think again about the servant of God (name of the man), may I forget and his name and appearance, so that even when we meet, we won’t recognize him again. Amen!" The bread needs to be crumbled outside the window for the birds. Repeat the ritual daily for a week.

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A lapel is a break in the energy connection between two people who form an established couple. As a result of the lapel, the lovers’ positive relationship disappears, and a negative perception of each other arises.

The result is a gap. And all this can be done by a lapel that will save you not only from feelings and emotions, but also from your loved one.

Very often the negative effect of a lapel is similar to damage, so it is not recommended to do it. Although it’s up to you to choose the lesser of two evils. If your situation does not suggest any other option, then you should resort to a lapel, but just try not to do it yourself, it’s better to contact a professional with a good reputation and positive reviews.

Below are various lapels, not for the purpose of performing them at home, but for the purpose of familiarization and selection of the appropriate one. Let us remind you that it is better to entrust a magician with experience and knowledge of all the nuances of protection, ritual, and consequences to perform a love spell.

Lapel through food or drink

Say the following words to the water:

“From now on, let (name of the betrothed) and (name of rival) not sleep together, don’t lie down, and don’t breathe. (the name of the betrothed) and (the name of the rival) will not be able to see each other, they will not be able to eat and drink together, go to the same house, give birth to and raise children, greet the dawn, walk together, kiss lips. Now (name of the betrothed) only remembers and dreams about me, only greets me with a smile. Let it be so!"

Add the charmed water to your betrothed's drink or food so that neither he nor anyone else notices.

Liquid in any form is one of the most popular components in magic.

Lapel with knots

For the ritual you will need a thick woolen thread onto which the following words are spoken:

“I separate (the name of the betrothed) from (the name of the rival) at night and during the day, on the road and at home, in sleep and in reality, in sober mind and unconsciousness. I unite myself with (the name of my betrothed) forever, so that he howls and writhes for me in longing, rushes from window to window, from door to door, strives for me from everywhere, across all roads and paths, across water and in the wind. Yes, (the name of the betrothed) would come running to me (your name), and ask to be held in my white arms, and would say that he could not live without me for a day. Let it be so.”

  • 1 knot - I’ll go out to the outskirts
  • 2nd knot – I’ll throw it into an open field
  • 3rd knot – separation
  • 4th node – to the courtyards
  • 5 knots - on the road
  • 6 knots – in the seas
  • 7th knot - into the forests
  • 8th knot - into the meadows.

A woolen thread with knots should be thrown on the threshold of the betrothed, ideally put in his pocket.

Lapel from a young man

After sunset, in the evening, heat a metal knitting needle or needle from the fire of a candle, and then lower it into a glass of cold water. Using a cooled needle, touch your forehead and heart area, saying the following words:

"Hot metal has become cold,
So is my heart,
Cool down to the slave (name).
Now and ever and unto ages of ages.
Amen".



Winter lapel from my husband

This lapel is done in winter for water. With this lapel, the wife turns away from her husband, who subsequently becomes free for a new relationship, for example, with you.

"As the water cools down,
Let her heart cool down.
How the water freezes
Let (the name of the rival) love for her husband freeze forever.”

It is advisable that no one touches this glass for seven days, so it should be left in a place where no one can get to it. After this turning away, the wife herself will leave her husband, or will become so cold towards him that he himself will leave or open his heart to new feelings and new relationships.

Remember that by turning on a married couple, you are destroying the family and taking on greater responsibility. And as they say, “You can’t build happiness on someone else’s misfortune.”

Lapel through metal

You can cool the heat of your feelings by using hot metal. Prepare a steep infusion of St. John's wort in advance, light a church candle, and heat a knife blade on its fire.


St. John's wort is known as a plant that has miraculous powers

While the metal is heating up red-hot, think about your betrothed and mentally say his name, remembering how your feelings used to seethe, blazing like fire, heating up the relationship with passion.

Transfer it all to the tip of a hot knife - feelings, dreams, desires. Dip a hot knife into a tall goblet of broth and say:

“As iron grows cold, so my soul will grow cold towards God’s servant (name).”

Or: “As the iron has cooled, so will the passion of God’s servant (name) for me cool down.”

The contents of the cup should be drunk to the last drop, while concentrating on your feelings. At this moment, your experiences should leave you, leaving only memories that will not disturb or disturb you.

Conspiracy for a complete break

To break off relations with your loved one once and for all and no longer torment yourself or him, take a photo of you together, cut it in the middle and say:

“A wolf wanders over a mountain, a pike swims under water. They don’t get together, they don’t have conversations, they don’t think, they don’t bear fruit, they don’t do common things. So (your names) wouldn’t walk together, wouldn’t have conversations, wouldn’t think, wouldn’t bear fruit, would live separately, wouldn’t worry about each other.”

Fold the images of the cut photo so that you and the young man are looking in different directions and store it that way. Alternatively, you can get rid of your other half by simply throwing it away - it should be an image of your loved one.

Women are often capable of great self-sacrifice. Many representatives of the fair half of humanity deliberately forbid themselves to seek reciprocity of love.

Some people don’t want to destroy the happy union of a desired man with another chosen one, some are afraid to take their sweetheart away from their wife and children, for others it is important to maintain peace in their own family.

Well, you have the right not to succumb to passion and drive your feeling into the depths of your soul, forgetting your loved one. And in order to calm your tormented heart quickly, without suffering, be sure to do it.

How to forget the person you love?

We want to tell you about several long-standing rituals that can be performed without painstaking preliminary preparation.

If you have sufficient magical abilities (and they are given, like any talent, from birth), then everything will probably work out, go for it. Otherwise, we advise you to seek help from practicing fortune tellers.

Poppy ritual

Poppy is a magical plant that is ideal for lapel divination. It helps you forget about feelings.

At the moment of flowering, its bright petals flutter in the wind like a flame, but then the petals fall off, and the dried seed becomes a soporific dope.

Get a handful of this seed.

It’s best, of course, to use a self-grown “box,” but a pastry bag will also work.

Sew the new black fabric into a neat little bag.

Just before midnight, pour the seeds into it and go to your lover's house.

Exactly at twelve o'clock at night, walk around this house three times, scattering thin poppy path(calculate in advance so that there is enough content. All this time, whisper the plot:

“Love, go to sleep, and don’t wake up again. Heart, close, and don’t open again. Just as this poppy can’t gather again, so I, the red maiden (name) and the good fellow (name), don’t have mercy. The key and the lock, the word and seal"

What to do if your loved one lives in a huge high-rise building? It is logical to assume that the effect of manipulation will be small, because you will have to cover the energy of hundreds of people.

In such a case, act differently. Go around not the house where your desired one is dozing, but the place with which the strongest manifestation of your special sympathy is associated.

For example, a street cafe in which you had a memorable heart-to-heart conversation, a bus stop from which you left somewhere together, etc.

Spilled salt

You can forget your beloved man with the help of another ritual. Let's talk about him.

Salt spilled accidentally is a sure harbinger of discord. It is obvious that deliberately committing similar actions, and even with an enhancing spell, leads to a rift between people.

Buy a pack of salt from three different stores. Take a small pinch from each and put it in a matchbox.

Carry the box with you. When you meet a person you want to take out of your soul, quietly take out what you have in store.

Find an opportunity pour salt between themselves and the desired man. At the same time, quietly say: “My beloved, I don’t wish you harm, but I am excommunicating myself from you. We will not be together, neither in the flesh, nor in the heart, nor in a dream, nor in reality. From now on and forever.”

This ritual is no less popular than a love spell. A love lapel is done quite often when they want to break some kind of emotional connection that supports the relationship between two people. We will consider situations in which this ritual can help, as well as techniques for performing it, in this article.

This ritual will help you or another person forget the one who has settled in the heart.

Love magic - lapels aimed at separating two people. You can use a magic ritual in the following situations:

  • The need to protect strong family relationships from the influence of a rival who requires attention from an unfree man;
  • In order to save one of the partners who is in an unsuccessful relationship. Usually this ritual is resorted to by relatives and close people of the person who is threatened by a lover or lover. For example, the mother of the bride can read a love letter to a girl who has fallen in love with a criminal guy.

Questions from visitors and answers from experts:

  • Restore peace of mind after parting with your lover, or get rid of longing for someone who does not love you and will never love you.
  • Break up an established couple and get yourself a man you like. Reading love spells on a girl is a good way to get rid of your rival.
  • Neutralize the effect of a love spell. This process is quite complex and consists of several stages: analysis of the love spell, removal of the consequences, installation of strong protection. By carrying out this, you risk bringing upon yourself a negative program that can destroy your life and the lives of the people around you. It is better to contact a professional and experienced magician.

Rules for conducting love rituals

  1. All lapel rituals are usually performed during the waning phase of the moon, and this ritual is no exception. Together with the celestial body, which is declining, the power of the rival, who decided to interfere with a happy and prosperous life with your chosen one, will also go away. Also, the power of the moon will help make the love lapel more effective and completed in a shorter time.
  2. Never do this type of magic on Friday, this day is called the day of Venus. It is aimed at love magic, but interferes with lapels. Friday helps make love relationships even stronger and even better.

Collection of love lapels

You need to take the spoon that your spouse will use later to eat.

Option 1: “On a spoon and a candle”

On Saturday after 12 midnight, start performing the lapel. You will need the following attributes, which should be prepared in advance:

  • A table spoon that will be used by the spouse;
  • Container with water,
  • Wax candle.

Take the spoon in your hand and bring it to the burning candle fire. Then instantly lower it into the prepared container of water and begin to read the love lapel:

Just as a spoon cools in water, so do you.

God's servant (state your spouse's name), cool down.

Forget your unnecessary feelings for my rival,

God's servant (state the name of your partner), put away fornication and lust.

Just as this spoon should be in our house, so should you,

God's servant (name of spouse) to be in our house.

Amen (say three times)!

In order for the ritual to be most effective, perform it 3 nights in a row.

Option 2: “For poppy seeds”

This love spell is aimed at getting rid of melancholy when love is not shared. You should first sew a small bag, using natural black fabric as a basis. On the waning moon, buy poppy seeds. At night, around midnight, pour the same grains into a sewn bag. After which he will go to the house of the one you love so much and are trying to forget.

At 12 midnight, a girl or woman should walk around her lover’s home three times, scattering poppies along the way, thereby making a small path. Remember that you need to buy enough poppy seeds to have enough for you. Read these words quietly:

My love, go to sleep quickly and never wake up again.

My heart, close and never open again.

Just as poppy seeds cannot gather together again, neither can I,

The red maiden (name), with the good fellow (name), should not have mercy.

Key with lock, word with seal.

Option 3: “For a glass of fresh milk”

You will need a glass of fresh "country" milk. Spit inside the glass and say:

Not a single person lives in our world without drooling.

So I, God’s servant (name), to you, God’s servant (name),

I command and punish you not to live without me and not to enjoy this life without me.

You'll get bored, get sunburnt, and come back to me,

But you won’t remember the homewrecker - not today, you won’t remember tomorrow, you won’t remember ever.

My word is strong and true. You will be with me forever.

Amen! Amen! Amen!

Then give the milk to your loved one to drink. After all the manipulations have been done, your life will return to its previous course, your lover will no longer walk “to the left.”

Option 4: “For boiled water”

If you understand that your relationship has come to an end, but you can’t forget your loved one, use effective conspiracies to start a new life.

It often happens that the feelings between a couple are not as strong as expected. Or maybe someone even suffers from unrequited feelings. In such situations, many often resort to help save relationships.

But there are situations when all methods have been tried, and there is nothing left but to forget the beloved. Of course, it hurts, and sometimes many people become depressed because they don’t have the strength to start a new life with another partner. In such situations, conspiracies against non-reciprocal love are very helpful.

Conspiracies, lapels and chills for love

All of the methods below are very effective. You can choose any one that you like best.

The first conspiracy is used in cases when you realized that the relationship has reached a dead end and can no longer be saved, even after you have tried all possible rituals. For example, a conspiracy to return a husband to the family. Yes, your soulmate has already become a part of you, but you cannot return the past. It is this conspiracy that will help you not regret anything and move on: “Lord my God, I am a slave... (my name) standing before you. I beg you for mercy, help me forget the slave... (name of beloved). Heal my soul and heart and deliver me from suffering. Amen. Amen. Amen".

After this, mentally thank your partner for all the good things you had. And start enjoying new events in your life.

The following lapel will help in cases where you have unrequited love, and the young man does not pay any attention to you or is dating someone else. In this case, you need to go to church, light one candle for the health of your beloved, a second candle for yourself, and bring the third home.

In the evening, after sunset, make sure that no one will disturb you, light a candle and say the following phrase: “In the name of God I conjure, God’s servant... (the name of my beloved) I forget. I live happily without you, just as you live without me. We have different roads and different destinies. Amen".

Blow out the candle and go to bed. In the morning, take the candle to the church and put it to burn out near the icon of the Mother of God.

Another cooling option is suitable if you have the opportunity to offer your lover food. Any food or liquid will do. Many people use water because it is most convenient to perform the ritual with. You need to read a spell over a product or water, which you will subsequently treat to the required person: “In the name of the Lord I endow this... (water and the like) with heavenly power. Please, cool down the ardor of the servant of God... (your name) to the servant of God (name of your beloved), separate them into different corners, and so that they would be better apart than together. My word is strong. Amen. Amen. Amen".

After this, you need to drink some water or eat some food, which you can then treat to the right person. Any remaining water or product should be thrown away so that no one else can try it again.

All methods are very effective, but before using them, think about whether you really want this. After all, there are many love spells that help rekindle feelings between lovers. Follow your heart and don't forget to press the buttons and

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