Go to class
Invite your half to . There, under the supervision of an experienced instructor, have a sparring session with sabers or swords. It's unconventional, original and fun. And the main thing is that you both will remember it for a long time. If you like it, you can continue the lesson and buy a permanent subscription.
Go : Latin American, Oriental, or Retro. One hour of salsa or pachanga class is fun and good for muscle tone. In addition, after active exercise you will get hungry and you can continue your date in a cafe for a delicious dinner.
Invite your girlfriend to a dance lesson. It's fun and enjoyable. Photo: thinkstockphotos.com
Is your loved one interested in creativity and art? Then invite her to a studio-workshop, for example, to a master class on drawing a portrait or cartoon. And don’t worry if you got a solid C in drawing at school - a professional artist will help you and tell you what and how to do.
Don't like to draw? Take up pottery or silk and glass painting, and sign up for real Belgian chocolate. You can take a master class on decorating carnival masks under the guidance of an experienced decorator.
You can go to a pottery master class. Photo: thinkstockphotos.com
Go to natureIf the weather permits, take a boat ride along the Moscow River. A two-hour walk will allow you to get to know each other better, chat about different topics and admire the beautiful historical buildings of the city. At any time you can go down to the ship’s restaurant and order a light dinner.
A great idea for a first date. Just check with your chosen one in advance if she has any fear of these animals, otherwise your date may end before it even begins. If she shares your love for horses, feel free to invite her and go for a ride.
Your companion will truly appreciate a riding lesson. Photo: thinkstockphotos.com
Picnic by a lake or pond in a city park. All you need is a blanket, a basket with delicious food and drinks, a blanket - if your lady gets cold. You can take with you a book or album with interesting photographs. You can arrange it with barbecue and drinks, but this is only if you have already known each other for at least a few days.
Any girl will love a romantic dinner on the roof of a house. Photo: thinkstockphotos.com
Romantic - an unusual but interesting date. You can set the table in advance, put candles, or invite musicians. You can do without them by turning on a disc with your favorite romantic melodies. Be sure to take blankets with you to the roof, there is a strong wind at altitude, make sure that your loved one does not catch a cold after such an extreme event.
If you like active recreation, organize a romantic date on bicycles! They can be easily rented. The main thing is to lay out a competent route so that along the way you can relax on a bench near the park, or go to some cafe and have a snack. You should not drive non-stop, so as not to get tired out of habit.
But what to do if, of all types of recreation, you both prefer rollerblading? And great! There are now several rental points operating in the city, and there are excellent roller skating tracks in the parks and embankments. It is better to drive on special paths to minimize the likelihood of accidents. In any case, take a helmet and protection for your hands and feet.
Feel like a gourmetGo to a restaurant, but not an ordinary one, but one where you first need to prepare the dish yourself under the guidance of the restaurant’s chef. Your choice: steak or fish, salad or first course, even desserts and drinks. By the way, this is a good way to get to know each other better and test each other’s culinary abilities.
Find the child within you
The Museum of Optical Illusions is a great option for a first date. Especially for those who like to take pictures and selfies. The museum's halls feature more than a hundred interactive installations that can be photographed. Sail on the Titanic to escape sharks and alligators. Walk on the moon or climb a tall tower. Such a date will leave a lasting impression and will also add some funny pictures to your album.
Become a magician
If you are fascinated by Tarot cards, fortune telling and predictions, go to a magic session. You will be able to learn about your past and future, find out if you are suitable for each other and what lies ahead for you. The Master of Occult Sciences will also tell you a lot of interesting things about stones and cards.
If you don’t get enough vivid impressions within your couple (and this is a common thing when life together gets into a comfortable rut), then there is a risk of going somewhere else for them or starting to unconsciously “rock the boat” by clinging to your partner over trifles. To prevent this from happening, organize a little adventure for the two of you!
Ideas to spice up your dates
Let a weekend on a yacht in the Mediterranean, a helicopter flight and other dizzying dating options known to you from films remain within the confines of the television screen. A fun rendezvous should not require preparation comparable to a special operation and cost you loans.
City Tour
The streets along which you walk to and from work are sure to conceal some kind of history. The beautiful building in which the tax office of your district is located was quite possibly once a merchant’s mansion. It turns out that at that intersection, in the last century, an attempt was made on the governor’s life, and a famous children’s writer spent his summer in this inconspicuous house. To become a guide for your companion, you don’t need to bury yourself in dusty archives - just download and study a guide app in advance or read a couple of articles by local historians, which are easy to find on the Internet.
Picnic on the roof
It sounds almost unrealistic, but in fact there is nothing complicated here. You can climb to any city roof by asking the keys from the house manager or the HOA representative. A bottle of wine, fruit and light snacks will be enough for dinner at altitude - the main course will be watching the stars and city lights from an unusual height. Don’t forget a couple of blankets: one can be used to spread out treats, the other can be used to cozy up for the two of you.
Outdoor cinema
You've probably seen or read about American drive-in cinemas, when the screen is installed in a large clearing, and the audience watches the film each in their own car. The fashion for such film screenings has spread throughout Russia, but even if it has not yet reached your city, it doesn’t matter - you only need a laptop with your favorite film, a car (your own or rented), a secluded place if possible and a companion who agrees with what you want to see. that the back seats are ideal places for kissing.
Tasting
A wine shop, a cheese factory, a pastry shop with handmade chocolate... Any place where you can have a short lecture and treat you to something delicious is suitable. In this case, what is important is not so much the opportunity to try several types of product, but the atmosphere itself. Therefore, take an interest in reviews about the chosen establishment in advance and discuss all controversial issues when booking. Say that you want to have a romantic date, which means that the presence of other participants is undesirable. If this is not possible, discuss what surprise you can prepare for your loved one.
Cooking master class
If your man says that he doesn’t like to cook, it means that he simply doesn’t know how to do it very well and is embarrassed to admit it. At one-day culinary schools, they will help you either master the secret of preparing some complex holiday dish, or, conversely, teach you how to prepare an everyday dinner with a minimum of hassle and expense. There are plenty of places where you can find a teacher in a chef’s hat: such master classes are regularly organized by restaurants, cafes, training centers and even consulates of countries famous for their cuisine!
Relaxation for two
An option that a man may have come across in collections of ideas for Valentine’s Day, but was never inspired by, is a joint visit to a SPA salon. It may include a simultaneous couples massage, a “health barrel”, a tea ceremony, a hammam or a sauna. You can also get by with a budget option - buy passes for a one-time visit to the pool and just swim side by side.
Who will pay?
If you are determined to arrange a turnkey date, then you pay - and not from your general budget. Another thing is that not every man can calmly watch a girl take out her wallet, so decide all financial issues in advance.
check yourself
If you are used to taking on any task with Stakhanovite zeal and seem to get a little carried away when planning a date, check yourself with the checklist!
■ The budget should not go beyond what is reasonable - for example, the amount of your weekly expenses in the supermarket. This is still a date, albeit not quite an ordinary one, but still not a celebration of a crystal wedding.
■ Respect time and space limits. A date cannot last three days and take place five hundred kilometers from your hometown. Otherwise, this is already a mini-vacation, which, by the way, you better organize together - it brings you incredibly closer together.
■ The format of the date should be interesting to both of you. There is no need to use a plausible pretext to drag a man to a jazz festival if he only listens to Russian rap.
What your man is unlikely to like
If you are inspired and have made your own list of original ideas for a date, re-read it carefully and cross out everything that your man is unlikely to like.
Shopping
Even if the shopping center is on the way, even if you just need to pop into one department for a minute, and even if you decided with the best intentions to be a stylist, devoting the whole evening to selecting new looks for your “half” or “family look” for the two of you - cross it out ! For a man, going shopping together is torture, and for you it is also a ruinous option, because you pay for an atypical rendezvous yourself, as has already been agreed upon with you.
Photoshoot
The result will probably be sweet and romantic, but the process itself with changing clothes and freezing in awkward poses is quite tedious. It is unlikely that the man will be delighted. It's better to put it off until your wedding anniversary (or even completely).
Double date
It doesn’t matter whether you invite a couple you know to join or agree to take a single boyfriend and girlfriend with you and at the same time try to arrange their personal life. In any case, the focus of attention will be partially shifted to strangers. Is this what you wanted in the first place?
Volunteering
Go together to an animal shelter to walk a dozen dogs, or volunteer to deliver boxes of food and toys to large families. This is a wonderful initiative that honors both of you, which, however, does not fit in with the very idea of devoting time to each other. So another time.
Hi all!
Today we have unusual article. And it is unusual in that it is not me who will give you advice, but one interesting girl. I promised you that I would open such a section?! Now you can read advice from a female perspective.
Today's topic is: unusual date with a girl.
And really, how can you arrange an unforgettable date for her, so unusual that she will remember you for the rest of her life?
This is a kind of art that requires regular practice and valuable advice.
Well, now you will get these tips.
When you already know each other, don’t be shy - ask the girl what kind of gifts she likes, music, her favorite places, what she dreamed about as a child (maybe you can make her dream come true?). And ask which date she thinks would please her more? (just to avoid the wrong choice of place, gift, etc.)
After all, we girls will tell you everything with great pleasure, and you will feel good (because we give you the key to your desires, and all you have to do is use it), and we are pleased that you are interested.
At first I thought I would give you the usual tips on how to give a girl an unforgettable date. But then the thought came to me that we are different girls after all. And we are so different and need an individual approach.
Individual dates
This is an interesting subtitle.
Now let's see what types of women there are and decide which ideas for dating a girl are best to use for each of them.
Calm- such girls need a calmer environment, a calm romantic dinner by candlelight, where music is playing (you can do this at home, invite them to a restaurant, if it’s quiet and peaceful in the evenings, then you can set the table on the balcony, or on the shore rivers, etc.).
Quiet and peaceful walks in the parks, or just walks. But because you have an unusual date with a girl, which means stop at some intervals and, as if by waving a magic wand, give her some gift (a smile and sparkle in the eyes are guaranteed).
You can simply bring a girl to the shore of the sea, river or lake and just sit (but of course, don’t forget about the surprise). I am sure that until the end of your walk she will think for a long time about what a romantic guy each of you is. You can go to different places where it is quiet and peaceful. 
Active and positive– such girls are happy with any date, like a hungry cat is with sour cream – it’s not difficult to arrange an unforgettable date for a girl.
You can take her to attractions, ride a bike with the desired route for you. It’s also possible with stops where you already have prepared a small but pleasant trifle(you can arrange a small, so to speak, picnic).
Take her to the bowling alley (they always play songs there, you can slowly go up to the administrator and order her favorite song and at that time give a flower or a gift, both nice and original). Bring her to dance school(so to speak, you will surprise her, and, of course, she will look at you with great interest and dance with you). There are many interesting places where you can take a girl.
Sports– girls who at least somehow love sports and don’t mind trying new sensations. If you want to arrange an unusual date for such a girl, then use those date ideas that I personally think are the best.
You can go to the roller skating rink. It’s a lot of fun (even if she doesn’t know how, but you will definitely not be left without attention because you will be a real support for her).
By the way, you can try to arrange paragliding(if you yourself are ready for this), but as I said, ask what she likes so as not to make a mistake with the choice. You can take a girl to the playground, play ball with her (even if she doesn’t know how, she will definitely be interested).
You can organize a hiking trip, where you write some wishes on pieces of paper on some mountain. Stick the leaves into the bottle and bury the bottle(and only you will know this place, and, of course, give her a gift).
In winter, you can also connect an ice skating rink. Unlike just a walk in the cold (where you will spend 15 minutes at most), you you will combine business with pleasure. You’ll kill two birds with one stone: you’ll keep warm and it’ll be interesting.
Let's talk a little about gifts
Gifts come in different forms, now there are no problems finding and buying, the choice is worth it, what gifts do you need? When you know what your girlfriend likes, it’s much easier. So I advise you to start with a simple and original gift at the same time.
For example, there is no need to simply give flowers. Girls, so to speak, don’t “fall for it” anymore. Instead, give her a "Teddy Bouquet" (a bouquet of little bears). Such a bouquet will definitely not fade, and will always be a pleasant memory of your date.
But be careful. Calm and romantic girls prefer such gifts. If you give such a plush bouquet to a cold girl, the effect may be the opposite.
You can do the same with other gifts. You can give small, but practical, not expensive, but valuable. Interesting, but original. Give gifts that will always remind her of you.
Of course, every date needs to be thought through to the smallest detail, no matter how simple or complex it is. If you want to arrange the perfect date for a girl, then you have to plan everything. Calculate time, place so that you and your girlfriend feel comfortable. If you want to give something, it must be unusual gifts.
I'll tell you a secret: simple gifts will not only not help you, but will also ruin everything. Sergei, probably already told you about this.
In general, no matter what kind of girl she is, and no matter what you come up with for her, or cook for her (of course, knowing what she loves), she will appreciate everything, don’t be afraid to come up with it and implement it. Girls like guys who behave confidently, so there is no need to be afraid to realize your ideas for an unusual date with a girl. And believe me, there will be another happy girl in the world who has such a guy, and good things are not forgotten!
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So, you have now read the advice of my friend, who will now run the “girls’ advice” section.
I think she gave some very logical advice that you can use. The only exception is that you should not give gifts in the initial stages, when you have not had sex or even kisses.
An unusual date with a girl is something that you need to invest time and energy into only when your relationship has at least just begun to move into the stage of falling in love. The main indicator that surprises can be arranged is that the girl herself is looking for communication with you, offers to meet, etc.
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Arranging the perfect date is not easy these days - it involves a lot of worry, spending money and doubts when choosing places. Just meeting someone new is already difficult, but you also have to think of an interesting date, which makes things even more difficult.
Sure, you could take your significant other to the movies or treat you to a delicious dinner - it will always remain a classic, but if you really want to impress your loved one, you have to think outside the box.
Luckily, there are plenty of creative first date ideas out there, no matter your budget or where you live. They are unique, unconventional, and almost guaranteed to help you learn more about your crush. Read on, maybe some idea will suit you too!
23 unusual date ideas
1. Take a cooking class.
Something as simple as cooking can become unique and fun when you do it together.
2. Go to an interesting bar.
Whether it's a themed bar, a bar that lets you create your own drink, or a secret bar that you can only access with a special flyer, it's guaranteed to have fun and allow you to try lots of new drinks.
3. Volunteer.
Together with a team of volunteers, clean up the city beach, work in the kitchen handing out free soup, or help build a house. These seemingly strange actions will show how to care and help the person you are dating. And then your relationship will start on the right note.
4. Go to a brewery or take a wine tour.
If you don't have any wineries near you, there are probably plenty of breweries around the country. It's always interesting to learn the history of a place and, of course, try a new type of beer!
5. Go to an animal shelter to play with the dogs (and adopt one!).
If you're an animal lover and want your partner to enjoy playing with them too, find a local animal shelter near you and spend the day among the dogs and cats.
More originality!
6. Discover new places.
Make your way through the labyrinths of high-rise buildings and dark courtyards to find several hidden city spots that will forever become your secret corners.
7. Sing karaoke together.
This, of course, may not be very melodic and embarrassing, but you will be able to tell if the person you went on a date with can sometimes fool around and do a hilariously thoughtless act.
8. Go on a night tour.
Towns and cities are known to offer night tours through dark, poorly lit streets. If you are lucky, your soulmate will be saved from fear and cold in your arms.
9. Attend poetry readings.
What could be more romantic than listening to poetry together? Look for similar events in the city and don’t forget your camera!
10. Find out about nightly discounts in cafes.
Some cafes and bars offer discounts during certain evening hours. This is well suited for those who work late and want to break up their workdays with a quiet get-together at their favorite establishment.
11. Play games in bars.
Look for old bars like these that have pool tables and slot machines. Be competitive with each other and your anxiety about the date will fade into the background.
Think outside the box
12. Come up with your own walking route.
Find some picturesque corner outside the city and wander around it. In silence and away from the bustle of the city, you can calmly talk with your chosen one.
13. Play an interactive city game.
What could be more fun than solving riddles, running around the city looking for secret clues and trying to figure out a treasure map? Just do it all together!
14. Jump on the trampoline.
Now almost every city has trampoline parks. Show your other half your most incredible tricks - and you are guaranteed a charge of fun and good mood.
15. Go to the strangest museum in your city.
Small museums tucked away in the interweaving of city streets offer a lot of things to see: visit an exhibition of antique thermometers or learn all about the structure of 20th-century trains.
16. See what you can find at the flea market.
Spend the day going through people's old things and find your own treasures. Maybe you'll end the day with a cute souvenir to remember your first date.
17. Do simple things.
Carve pumpkin designs together if Halloween is coming up, or go up on the roof to admire the lights at night. Simple, cheap, and can be the first good memory in a thousand future ones.
18. Make a mosaic.
See how quickly you two can complete a thousand little puzzle pieces or the Sunday crossword puzzle in the newspaper.
Come up with something that will definitely impress
19. Go to a fortune teller or psychic together.
There's nothing better than knowing what to expect from your partner in advance. Even if you don't believe in anything mystical, this will be a fun pastime that hardly any other couple you know can boast of.
20. Do something you've never done before.
For example, play golf. Or curling. There are so many courses and private lessons now - go for it! Suddenly, some unusual activity on a date may become your hobby.
21. Find a wild garden and pick up handfuls of fruits and berries.
And then prepare the most delicious pie for your other half.
22. Turn to art.
Take an art class or learn how to make ceramic vases together.
23. Go bowling.
There are plenty of bowling alleys in any city. Decide for yourself what you want: to win or to give in to your loved one.
Today, a banal dinner in a restaurant or a trip to the cinema will not surprise anyone. But you really want every evening spent together to be remembered for a long time. Fortunately, there are plenty of unusual places where you can enjoy romantic communication, you just have to use your imagination. ELLE offers original date options for every taste and budget.
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Is dinner at a restaurant too old an idea? Then try dine together on the roof of Moscow skyscrapers. In any social network, in a matter of minutes you can find “stalkers” who will lead you to the roof (be it the main building of Moscow State University, or a high-rise building on Kotelnicheskaya Embankment), and if necessary, help you organize a dinner there with wine and a white tablecloth. Of course, not for free and with the risk that the residents of the house may well consider your romance to be petty hooliganism and call the police. For those who are not carried away by dubious adventures, there is always a luxurious alternative - say, dinner at the Romantic restaurant on the roof of the Radisson Royal Hotel(under the very spire of the high-rise building known as the Ukraine Hotel): it has a table for only one couple in love. You can prepare dinner yourself by ordering an individual (for a couple) culinary master class from the chef - “team work” brings you closer together! True, it is better to plan such a lesson in advance: this way you are guaranteed to find the “right” chef and select a menu to suit your taste.
A good alternative to dinner could be exquisite tasting- say, wine or high-quality Chinese tea. And if both sound too simple, there is also something exotic: cooking cocoa according to Indian ritual traditions or matepitiya ceremony(both are available at the Mate club on Shabolovskaya).
An original date doesn't have to be too far-fetched: sometimes the simplest things are the most touching - ride boats in the park, walk around the old city center, rent a couple of bicycles(or one tandem) and To set a picnic. In addition, the Appstore has up to a dozen good (and free) applications that will help take your loved one on a themed excursion- at least according to the architectural monuments of Art Deco, at least according to the favorite places of Bulgakov’s heroes. Visit to the museum can be no less exciting, especially if you don’t test your friend’s knowledge of modern painting, but take him to the Museum of Retro Cars, Soviet Slot Machines or the Bunker Museum, hidden at a depth of 65 meters.
Intellectuals (as well as those who are happy to join their circle) will like this date option as lecture or open lesson. Poets, musicians, artists, architects - almost every week in the capital you can get (often free) to unique master classes. True, it is better to use such a dating scenario at the very beginning of communication: firstly, it will help you get to know your counterpart better, and secondly, after the lecture you are guaranteed to have something to talk about over a cup of coffee. And if cultural trips are already a common thing for your couple, choose more piquant “lessons”: for example, body art or exotic massage.karting, wake boarding (or water skiing, which is said to be easier), shooting from a firearm or crossbow. The main thing is that the extreme hobbies of one of you do not frighten the other too much!
