Our people have a military secret - this is from "Malchish-Kibalchish". And there is a peaceful secret - this is the Great Mystery of Glass Balls. Yes, yes, those very heavy, transparent, about two-centimeter ones, which we cherished in childhood no less than scarce toys.

Nowadays, similar balls - already of different sizes and literally all colors and shades - are used for design. He poured it into a vase - he decorated the shelf. And now you can buy them at every step - as much as you want, at least a ton. Well, it’s completely uninteresting, no intrigue! Whether business ours, trushnye. With them, it was not so easy at all! ..

What is a glass ball - no need to explain to any Soviet child. This is the most valuable movable property. Like diamonds, only much cooler. Because sheer pleasure for all senses!

The touch of the ball pleases with the fact that it has a wonderfully pleasant - as adults would say - texture. It combines magical transparency and powerful heaviness. And the smooth surface resembles a lollipop. But how massive and strong they are, these lollipops! The experiments of young researchers to determine the level of the fortress of the ball showed: if you drop it from a height, it will not seem enough ... The surface on which you drop it. And the ball itself at the same time - at least henna. Though it is made of glass, and not some glass for you! Well, the maximum will break away from him a little.

Vision is also not left out. You look into such a thing, into the mysterious bubbles and cracks inside - and some lunar craters, Martian geysers and, in general, whole fantastic worlds are drawn before your eyes ... But the balls are not only completely transparent, but also a little colored. Most often greenish, but there are also blue and other shades. The rarer, the more valuable, of course. Looking at the white light through them is especially cool!

Children's hearing "folk diamonds" also delight. Because when they collide, they bang with a cool sound: boom. And they ride on the parquet with this: trrrrr. Remember the sacred question that made many residents of panel houses rack their brains: what are these strange sounds from the neighbors from above, as if something heavy is being rolled across the floor? Maybe it was they, darlings!

Why a glass ball is needed is also not a secret, except perhaps for slow-witted adults.

Firstly, to keep them at home, to examine, feel, smell and roll - this is pure disinterested joy, see above.

Secondly, they can be played in every possible way. For example, for accuracy, roll into a hole. Or, again, knock against each other on the floor or on the windowsill. You can change to other interesting things. And to feel like a real millionaire when you win or change so much that your pockets hang down irrevocably, and you have to pull off your T-shirt to transport your wealth. This is called "weighty, rude, visible"!

And finally, they attract, like everything incomprehensible. More on that below.

The question "where do the marbles come from" is an even more interesting and intriguing topic. This is where opinions begin to diverge.

"I pulled them out of aerosol cans!" - say one. “Well, what size and weight should the balloon be, if there is such a ball ...” - skeptical interlocutors think.

"Very simple: they are collected on the railroad tracks! - say others. - On the rails and around them - that's where this stuff is scattered."

"And we found these at construction sites!" - say the third.

"And we are in the forest! .." - the fourth ones themselves are perplexed ...

Near the airfield, near the film studio, around various enterprises - yes, it's easier to say in which places they were NOT found!

Of course, a logical question arises: in what way and for what purposes did glass marbles come into being at all? It is unlikely that adults produced them and scattered them solely to please us children ...

Proponents of the concept of aerosol cans believed that "they were put in there so that the contents would not thicken."

Proponents of the "railroad" theory believed that any glass that had to be transported from point A to point B was given a spherical shape, because it was more convenient to transport it: there were no sharp corners that could damage and cut everything around.

The children's mind has generated more than one interesting version. For example: that the balls are part of the train's braking system, and they are thrown out when the train slows down. The fantasy of a child may not come up with such a thing, yeah. And they are also sent by aliens to Earth as presents.

Those former ball-lovers and ball-collectors, who in adulthood retained an inquisitive mind, decided to approach the issue seriously, according to science. And this is what the studies conducted at the enterprises for the production of fiberglass showed ...

"Glass balls are molded spherical products made by boiling quartz sand, fluorspar, limestone, alumina, boric acid, etc. in a glass melting furnace at high temperature ... Glass balls are a semi-finished product, the starting material for the production of glass fibers for various purposes, the production of woven and nonwoven fibers.

So they were rolled back and forth by rail for a reason, but as a valuable raw material! They were taken to production, to produce fibers. So, just imagine. As some disappointed with this explanation write, "well, childhood is over."

But no, it didn't end at all! Because raw materials are raw materials, fiberglass is fiberglass, transportation is transportation - and that's why these spherical semi-finished products were found by the children's population in the most diverse and most unexpected places of our vast Motherland - from a construction site to a forest edge? Here scientific interpretations recede, embarrassed and disgraced - and we again joyfully enter the world of mystery. Maybe these things really have an extraterrestrial origin, huh? We won't be surprised!

How to choose vaginal balls?

These are 2 or 3 balls, which are interconnected by a thread, its diameter should be from 2 cm. Being in the vagina, the balls stimulate the muscles, increase blood flow, thereby train the intimate muscles and make the vagina narrow. If such training is carried out regularly, then a woman will enhance her sexual sensations during intimacy and will pleasantly amaze her partner with her new skills.

Vaginal balls come in different sizes and shapes (stars, hearts, oval, round, and so on). Different textures (ribbed, with pimples, smooth), can be made from different materials (latex, plastic, cyberskin and others). For beginners, the balls are not smooth and large. These balls will be easier to hold in the vagina. And then, over time, you can move on to heavy, smooth, small balls that will be quite difficult to hold with the muscles of the vagina.

How to use?

  • It should be remembered that there are hygiene rules and do not use the same balloons with a friend. Before use, they must be thoroughly washed or an antiseptic gel should be applied to them. Then lubricate the vaginal balls with a lubricant so that during training they do not cause discomfort. Then, in a reclining or lying position, insert the balls into the vagina. Apply a little intimate lubricant to the clitoris, labia.
  • The balls are inserted carefully and one at a time, leave the thread to pull the balls out. If during the introduction of the balls there is a feeling of discomfort, pain, you need to stop introducing the balls, you probably chose the wrong size, you need to start small.
  • When the balls are inserted, take a few breaths and exhalations, try to normalize breathing, stand up and hold the balls inside yourself with muscle strength.
  • Get upright and start exercising. Exercises should be done regularly, except for the days when menstruation occurs, gradually increase the time to 15 minutes. In the future, the main role will be played not by the duration of time, but by the very desire of a woman.

First you need to learn how to hold the balls inside. To do this, "close" the exit to the balls, a muscle that can stop urination. For the first time it will be enough. The next stage of the training is to relax and tighten the muscles in turn. We repeat once again that the balls are introduced lying down, and the exercises are done while standing. An exercise is considered difficult when you need to walk with balls inside. You need to start walking around the house, and then you can go outside with them.

In the use of vaginal balls for the purpose of training, regularity is needed. These exercises should be done for ten minutes, but daily, than to do for an hour, but once a week. The main thing is not to overdo it, there is a time for everything.
When it will not be difficult to hold the balls, you need to walk with them, rearrange your legs, like top models walk in one line.
You can do sitting exercises and take turns lifting your legs and together. The balls during these exercises roll over and provide a workout.

Vaginal exercise balls

There is no complex, they depend on your desires.

holding balls

Children's treasures. Colored glass balls with a diameter of about two centimeters. Blue, green and brown balls were considered the most valuable. When falling, the balls did not break, pieces only broke off from them.
One of the main advantages of the balls was the mystery of their origin.

Balls were either found or accepted as a gift. There were several versions of the "official" purpose and origin of the balls:
1. The balls were in aerosol cans, from where they were removed by craftsmen;
2. Balls were a way to transport glass in containers, in particular for rail transport.
Glass marbles served as children's currency in exchange relations. They were also worn as talismans and, of course, used for games. There were no special rules of the game, as in the West. You just had to successfully click your fingers on your ball so that it knocked the opponent's ball off the “field”.
Glass balls were also used by adults: at chemical institutes (to displace air from test tubes), for interior decoration (the balls were “soldered” into the walls), and for decorating aquariums.

Further replicas from various "nostalgic" forums:
We had an airfield nearby and they said, and there was such a legend of their origin: when the plane takes off, the friction of the chassis on the asphalt and the enormous temperature melt the asphalt and all kinds of dust and dirt on it, and then turn glassy.
And my older brother brought these balls from the glass factory - he and his friends climbed over the fence and scored their full pockets. They said that there are a dime a dozen of these balls, lying around everywhere. I had a lot of greens, one red and my favorite - blue.
I remember the whole yard went out to the railroad to search for these balls. They were quite rare and with great joy. And we had such balls as "freely convertible currency" ... and there were exchange rates ... Colorless - the cheapest, dark green - 1 piece \u003d 10 colorless, blue and milky white - at least 20 transparent pieces. We rolled these balls into the holes. Who is the most accurate - he takes all the wealth
we had the following theory of the appearance of these balls - at the film studio during the filming they used especially sparkling treasures to depict treasures, and then, of course, they ended up in our yard somehow ...
And the police came to our school and asked us to hand over glass balls, supposedly they were poisonous. Just like that, I think no one would have driven the police to talk in every class. Of course, no one passed .... But maybe radioactive waste was transported like that? We found them on the railway, the colors of all shades of blue and green.
The main and originally intended purpose of these glass beads is TUMBLING. Rather, the balls themselves are tumbling bodies.
Tumbling bodies are used in the processing of measuring, medical and fitter's tools; parts of cars, motorcycles, bicycles, watches; cutlery; turbine blades; propellers; gears; hardware; hardware; ferrites; porcelain insulators; sanitary fittings; chains; cutlery; buttons; details of prostheses; furniture, footwear, etc. metal fittings and much more.
Tumbling bodies are used as a filler in the processing of parts to remove burrs, rust, scale, dull edges, reduce roughness, surface hardening:
in rotating drums of various types (rotary, cantilever, hermetic, perforated, planetary, etc.); in vibrating containers, where instead of rotation, vibration is used in 2 or 3 directions, which ensures the processing of fragile and small parts without damage.

Glass beads are molded spherical products made by boiling quartz sand, fluorspar, limestone, alumina, boric acid, etc. in a glass melting furnace at high temperature. Glass beads are made with a diameter of 22 ± 1 mm. They include boron oxide (B2O3), the mass percentage of which is at least 7%. According to the physical and chemical properties, glass balls are not toxic, explosive, combustible. These neutral characteristics make it possible to use glass beads quite widely. Glass beads are a semi-finished product, the starting material for the production of glass fibers for various purposes, the production of woven and non-woven fibers. Glass beads are also used for dispersion of solids and liquids (especially often in bead mills). As packaging for glass beads, Big-Bag soft containers are used, designed for transportation and storage of bulk cargo.

Whatever manufacturers come up with to improve the quality of washing. Today, their task is even more complicated. Modern users seek not only to effectively wash things, but also to maintain their health. Production does not stand still - and now we are offered balls for washing in a washing machine. Let's figure out what they are for and how to use them.

What are washing balls

Several varieties can be found. All of them differ in form and principle of action. It can be washing balls made of foil, magnetic, oxygen. Let's take a look at the most popular ones:

  1. Balls with tourmaline for washing.
  2. Rubber "hedgehogs" for washing, rinsing and drying.
  3. Polypropylene against pellets.
  4. Magnetic.

tourmaline balls

They are a plastic case with holes. Inside the case are small ceramic balls. According to the manufacturer, they contain 80 types of minerals.

Principle of operation: when washing, negative ions are released into the water, infrared radiation works. The action is similar to the work of washing powder: the bond of dirt with the fibers of the fabric is weakened. Using balls in the wash, you do not add additional detergents.

According to the manufacturer, tourmaline balls can be used for two to three years. No more buying powders and rinses. You can imagine how much money you can save.

Advantages:

  • Does not contain chemical additives (phosphorus, boron).
  • The validity period is three years.
  • Ceramic balls have an antibacterial effect. Substances penetrate deeply into the fabric, removing dust allergens, microbes.
  • Do not leave a divorce on linen. On the contrary, they strengthen the color of the fabric, make it softer. Therefore, you do not need air conditioning.
  • Do not require precise dosage.

Flaws:

  • High price.
  • Inefficiency.

In some reviews, users complain about the quality of tourmaline balls. Things after washing lose color, pollution is poorly removed.

In the network you can find balls of different prices. You need original ones that are made in South Korea. A lot of resources are spent on production, so products cannot cost less than 4,000 rubles. The rest is fake.

hedgehog balls

These are plastic or rubber balls. From above they are covered with pimples. Used for washing things made of fluff, as well as ordinary linen. Often, "hedgehogs" are used to wash a down jacket. In the process of rotation, they hit the surface of the product, preventing the filler from bunching up.

It is undesirable to use without powder: plastic balls improve the quality of washing only in combination with detergent. The advantages include availability, low cost.

"Hedgehogs" can be replaced with ordinary tennis balls. The effect is the same: tennis balls break down clumps of fluff, do not damage the machine drum.

Balls vs pellets

Frequent washing contributes to the formation of pellets on clothes. Woolen products are especially affected.

Polypropylene balls come to the rescue. Outside they are covered with soft loops. When rotating, the loops collect all the garbage, wool, hair from the surface of the fabric. In addition to effective washing, you get the prevention of the machine from clogging.

magnetic balls

What do magnetic balls look like? These are products with large rubber holes, inside of which there is a magnet. The principle of operation is the same as in the previous cases. The balls bang against things, helping the dirt to flake off better. An internal magnet softens the water.

It will not work to completely abandon the powder, but you can use a smaller dose.

Advantages: unlimited service life, economical consumption of water and electricity.

How to use laundry balls

When it comes to tourmaline balls, they are pre-charged in the sun. Be sure to set the correct water temperature - no higher than 50 degrees. Otherwise, the products are deformed.

How many laundry balls do you need? Enough 2 pieces, when loading up to 7 kg. They need to be put in the drum along with the laundry. Let them dry after use.

Balls against pellets and "hedgehogs" are used according to the instructions on the package, from 2 pieces. Magnetic are laid in quantities from 6 to 12 pieces.

What can replace

Don't know how to replace tennis and other balls? Use silicone or rubber baby balls. Soap gel balls are commercially available, which are used instead of washing powder. You can buy them in the market, in hardware stores.

After reading this article, you can try to give up detergents. Perhaps now everyone will find an alternative to washing powders.

For a long time, the secrets of using vaginal balls were kept in the palace of emperors, and only empresses and concubines of emperors were trained to use them. Many of those who have mastered this technique have had very good health, retaining in old age the same elastic and generous in love sexual organs as they had when they were young unmarried girls.

These methods were practiced in order to give maximum pleasure to the emperor during lovemaking. In Japan, geisha possessed such secrets, who gave the man extraordinary pleasures, having developed vaginal muscles, in the internal capture of the vagina and voluptuous crimping of the penis during intercourse. Today, the sex industry offers a wide variety of vaginal trainers.

Balls can be used both for pleasure and for training the muscles of the vagina. They will give a much greater effect than simple execution, but without using them. Moreover, from the point of view of finance, this occupation is now not necessarily costly: it will not be difficult to find inexpensive vaginal balls at an affordable price today. Most often they are made of plastic.

To the benefits of trained muscles listed in the list, you can also add the beneficial effect of special massage performed using vaginal balls. There is an opinion that it can be performed by them and only by them. In accordance with this point of view, the balls, reaching the so-called “dead zones” inside the vagina, that is, those areas that are not affected during even the most violent intimacy, can thereby increase blood flow to these areas and reduce the risk of congestion. And as gynecologists say, the cause of all female diseases is improper sex life and congestion.

In addition, vaginal balls simply help many women to better understand their anatomy, to understand their feelings. The balls return to the vagina the grasping reflex, which is so important for the sexual sphere.

Attention! Women suffering from infectious, inflammatory diseases and allergic reactions can use balls only with the permission of the attending physician.

Now I suggest that you and I dwell in more detail on the types of vaginal simulators, forms, materials from which they are made, at the same time deal with the moral and ethical side of presenting such an intimate object as a gift.

From the history

The art of owning one's own body arose in ancient times. Chinese, Japanese, Indonesian, and after them Greek and Roman sexual mistresses used special exercises and devices to develop such important intimate muscles. Very wealthy Chinese, who were able to maintain a harem, actively encouraged their wives to use a variety of exercise equipment. The egg-shaped stone simulator was considered the most effective.

For a long time, the secrets of using Ben-wa vaginal balls (in China they are called Mienlin) were kept in the palace of emperors, and only empresses and concubines of emperors were taught how to use them.

To train the vaginal muscles in ancient India, young girls were injected with two round-shaped stones into the vagina, and in Japan - two balls of metal or ivory and forced the young ladies to keep these objects in themselves and under no circumstances let them fall out. This game of muscles among the women of India was considered a special art, and the brides who owned it were highly valued, and a large ransom was relied on them. Japanese geisha treasured this art for enthusiastic suitors as well as for special occasions. Already improved, more modern beads were brought from the Far East to France, full of free morals, in the 18th century. The French gave them the name pommes d`amour (apple of love) and used this fruit of pleasure both in palaces to create a kind of frivolous sensation, and in the best houses.

Types of balls

Today, the sex industry offers a wide variety of vaginal trainers. Stimulants that develop vaginal muscles include all types eggs, the shape of which can vary from standard ovoid to elongated, as well as various balloons.

Usually, size balls is about 3.5 cm. But there are also smaller diameters - from 1.9 cm to 3 cm. materials, of which the simulators are made, are also very diverse - metal, plastic, latex, medical rubber. In this case, vaginal balls can be with a displaced center of gravity and weighted.

Surface vaginal balls is very different. You can find both silver-plated and gold-plated balls, smooth and spiked, they can have a variety of bulges and ribs.

Latex balls with spikes

From the additional functionality, I would single out vibration, which can be controlled using a special remote control.

Vaginal balls can be either separate or interconnected.

How to choose?

When choosing the right ball for you, you should be guided by certain principles. If you have never done such training, your vaginal muscles are weakened, you have already experienced childbirth, then to start training you should choose a fairly large product, possibly with a rough surface. This will help keep the ball inside. At the first stage, you will learn how to simply squeeze and unclench the muscles and control actions.

In the early stages of training the muscular wall of the vagina, it is better to use balls with a displaced center of gravity.


If the vaginal muscles are already sufficiently well trained and controlled, to increase the load and strengthen the result, it makes sense to switch to weighted balls. In this case, it is better to choose a smaller simulator and with a smooth surface. The heavier the machine, the more effective the workout will be. The most effective in this case are small heavy metal balls with a smooth surface. To keep such a ball in the vagina, you have to work hard.

vaginal balls with vibrator will bring more pleasure to a woman, they are better used in love games as a good aphrodisiac before intimacy.

Lots of couples love it two small heavy gilded balls, which, unlike Ben-wa balls, are inserted into the vagina by a woman before sexual contact. And when a man begins to exercise frictions, they stimulate the most inaccessible internal zones of the vagina.

By the way, modern Chinese physicians, as well as physicians of antiquity, advise the use of eggs made of obsidian volcanic stone, as well as vaginal balls made of heavy metal or hard and dense varieties of wood.

How to use?

ATTENTION! Before the first use, it is necessary to treat the product with an antiseptic (for example, a solution of miramistin or chlorhexidine or a lubricant containing these antiseptics), then wash them with warm water and soap.

The general usage pattern is as follows.

  • Treat the balls with a small amount of intimate lubricant.
  • In a semi-recumbent or supine position, insert the balls into the vagina, leaving the thread to pull the balls out.
  • Get up, try to hold the balls for some time (initially for 1 minute, then increasing the exposure interval to 15, 20.30 or more minutes, depending on your desire and capabilities).
  • After the ability to hold the balls in the vagina for a long time has been mastered, start walking with them, when moving, the massage effect occurs (rolling the balls inside the vagina), and also when exposed to them, you begin to experience sexual emotions from slight excitement to ecstasy.

Before and after use, the balls are washed with warm water and soap. It is not recommended to use balls during close proximity with a partner.

Exercises

1. Learning to contract the vaginal muscles

First of all, we need to find the muscles we need. It's easy to do. Imagine that you are trying to interrupt urination. What muscles will you tense? This is exactly what we need. To start classes, you need to learn how to just feel your muscles, learn how to contract them. For this, no simulator is needed. If you are not good at this, then it is better to do it at home in a calm environment, concentrating. In the future, at any time, you can easily repeat this exercise, and no one will know about it. So, you should tighten the vagina several times and then relax it. It is necessary to try to use the vaginal muscles, without reducing the buttocks and abdominal muscles. When it seems easy to you, try to keep the muscle in a tense state, for example, by contracting it, slowly count to ten. Happened? Now you are ready to use the simulator.

2. We introduce the simulator into the vagina

All exercises using balls and eggs are carried out in a standing position. You need to relax and insert the simulator into the vagina. Before use, it is better to treat it with lubricant. This will help you avoid the discomfort associated with vaginal dryness and increase the effectiveness of your workout. If you have chosen an egg-shaped simulator, remember that it must be inserted with the wide side inward. You need to perform the exercises standing up straight, stretching your arms in front of you or, if it seems uncomfortable to you, putting them on your belt.

3. The order of the exercises

Now try to tighten your muscles and wrap them around the ball, try to feel it, what shape it is, what size. Listen to your feelings. Mentally divide the vagina into three parts. The lower part is the muscles that close the entrance to the vagina. This is the first and easiest part of the exercise, as these muscles are usually the most developed. The middle part is the muscles of the vagina itself. This is your second goal. Here you need to achieve the ability to distinguish each movement of these muscles, control them and make them move the way you want it. And the third is the uppermost section of the vagina, directly where the cervix is ​​\u200b\u200b. Learning to control it is not easy, but when you can use all three departments, you can easily manipulate them during lovemaking, which will make a lasting impression on any partner. So, you have entered your simulator. Now you need to keep it inside of you. To do this, tighten the muscles of the first section, as if blocking the exit. Feel the ball. Now take a deep breath and contract the muscles of the second section, clasping the simulator.

When this is easy, try learning how to move the ball up and down and side to side. Learn to squeeze-unclench the ball with different strengths. Now feel and contract the third section. Try, holding the simulator with the lower section, push it out with the upper one. In general, in this case, you can completely rely on your feelings and come up with any exercises for the development of vaginal muscles. But at the same time, one should not forget that keeping the muscles in a tense state all the time is not as effective as alternating their contraction with relaxation, since muscle fibers are strengthened during rest. It is best to train muscles daily, especially at first, when you are only trying to tone them.

Once you learn how to manipulate your machine easily, you can improve your skill by using a smaller, heavier, or smoother machine. You can also enter two balls at the same time and learn to push them against each other.

Another exercise: you enter one or both balls, and leave the thread outside. Now you pull the string, trying to extract the balls, and resist with your muscles, holding them inside. In this case, the pleasant is combined with the useful. Note: the balls themselves are hollow, and other, heavier (metal) rolls inside to create additional sensations. Small balls and the vaginal balls themselves, colliding, knock a little. And you will feel it. But you can be sure that no one around you will hear it.

Conducting such training is not only useful, but also pleasant. Do not be alarmed if suddenly, when doing the exercises, erotic fantasies begin to visit you or an orgasm suddenly comes. It will only help you reach your goal. Or maybe you want your partner to be aware of the training as well? It will most likely intrigue him. Or maybe you want his presence? It is likely that he will enjoy it.

What gives the use of vaginal balls?

  1. Sexual emotions are evoked (from mild arousal to ecstasy).
  2. The ability to regulate the volume of the vagina develops.
  3. Ownership of the muscular wall of the vagina, which has a beneficial effect on its ability to return to its original size after childbirth.
  4. The trained muscles of the vagina give vivid sensations during intimacy due to the tight girth of the penis by the vagina.
  5. Delivering royal sensations to a man with intimacy with a trained woman.
  6. Excitation grows and intensifies with the movement of each of the balls.

    7. Just imagine for a moment the balls in yourself: how you squeeze them, roll them and even swap them. You will do the same with the penis in the same way. Can you guess what will happen at this moment with your partner?

One of the advantages of using the balls as a vaginal muscle trainer is that the vaginal balls can be carried discreetly by others, even when going to the store or at work. If you have dumbbells next to the mirror, then perhaps next to the same mirror, in the bedside table, there is a place for other kinds of “dumbbells”

Vaginal balls as a gift? or Psychological aspect

Decide for yourself if you want to receive them as a gift. Perhaps, before reading this article, such a gesture from a loved one would have offended you, and you would have regarded it as a hint - practice, they say. Or, perhaps, on the contrary, you have long dreamed of being presented with such an intimate object, but you are afraid that they will not understand you, and therefore you do not let your man understand this?

After all, how much more pleasant it is to receive vaginal balls from your loved one, to feel taken care of yourself Moreover, in the end, this is a gift for him too: if your vaginal muscles have not yet been developed, he will be able to go through a whole range of new strong sensations. And you will be the culprit of this, but with his help. Just think how his penis will feel inside your vagina, when it is squeezed, then rolled with a gentle massage of the vaginal muscles. Even if your man does not move, he can get an orgasm only from your trained intimate muscles. So he will enjoy being close to you. Thus, you just have to figure out how to hint to him about your desire to give special pleasure to both of you.