Shrew - what is this? Features of obstinate people that you need to know for productive communication with them. What does obstinate mean?

Difficulties in relationships

How to tame a stubborn girl

Nature itself has decided that a woman must submit to a strong man. However, when a woman feels a lack of pressure from a man, she becomes more disappointed in him than ever. An attractive girl wants to feel the strength of a man, just like a shark feels the blood of its prey.

It is worth considering that weakness and powerlessness do not attract any adequate girl. But when it comes to being a man, strength is not the only indicator. A woman always wants to look up. For this reason, a man should not be weaker than his woman, he should not even be equal to her, he should always be something more important and greater.

For a woman to feel like a woman, there must be a man nearby. And when all the responsibility falls on a girl’s shoulders, she feels not like a woman, but like an older sister, or even a mother.

From the very first meeting, the girl begins to test the guy's strength. That he would allow her, that he would allow her. What he wants to get from her, and what he is still afraid to decide on. Every man wants to be respected, so that his opinion is decisive. However, not everyone understands how to achieve this. But you just have to turn to nature: you were already born a man, everything is already in your hands.

Nowadays, many girls want to take everything into their own hands, they want to control everything and be in charge. But they still won’t do it as well as men do. Know that there is no need to be desperate. Only a weak man hits and screams at girls. There are much more effective and consistent steps that will make any girl submit.

But many men are stopped by the idea that girls need a lot of money. And without them, it is almost impossible to interest and tame a girl. Is this really true? Remember:

1) There will always be a guy richer than you

2) There will always be that unfortunate guy who will spend incredible amounts of money on girls and still hear “no”.

3) There will always be a guy who has a bigger car, a more spacious apartment and a stronger body.

The secret ingredient to taming girls

What will make a woman yours are your personal qualities that will make her respect you. They do not depend on money and status, which you may not have. Only your character will make even a successful woman run as fast as she can to you to spend another calm day next to you.

Most problems arise because the man was not firm enough in the relationship. That he couldn’t say “no” when the woman began to test his strength. Most often, men are frightened and agree to any conditions; they begin to apologize and ask for forgiveness as soon as the girl throws a tantrum. Remember, no matter what the girl does, you must remain firm. This is the main law of correct play.

Half of a man's strength is manifested in the fact that a man does not allow himself to be drawn into women's affairs and hysterics. Thus, the less you react to the girl’s whims, the better it will be for you.

The girl will behave tomorrow the way you allow her to behave today. Therefore, if a girl is too capricious, it means that you have made mistakes in the past. Find them and fix them. It may be a little harsh, but it will be extremely effective.

There is no need to use manipulation and tricks. Just do everything based on what you need first. These are the kind of men that women love. But there is no need to become a redneck, there is a big difference between him and a solid man.

A girl cannot “force” herself to respect you

Respect is like attraction. When you look at a girl, you already understand on a subconscious level whether she is attractive or not. The same goes for respect.

Certain actions, behaviors, habits and endurance of a person cause us to respect him or not. Girls do exactly the same. Therefore, you cannot force her to respect you. The level of respect you receive from a girl is equal to your behavior from the first meeting.

Who do girls obey?

When a girl meets a man, she quickly decides what she wants from him: money or himself.

A strong man is always confident, firm in his decisions, makes plans for the future, does not complain and practically does not react to the girl’s antics.

A weak man is always dissatisfied with his girlfriend; he finds it pleasant to yell at her and accuse her of all mortal sins. He also seeks approval in almost everything he does.

You already understand what kind of man you should be with a girl. Fortunately, there are girls with whom even an insecure man gains strength and determination. Relationships are a two-way process where happiness depends on two people.

And the most important quality that any girl will appreciate is patience. Only thanks to him, it is possible to create ideal conditions for family life.

When in society, you can often hear the common phrase: “He has an obstinate character!” Meanwhile, few know what this concept actually means. This article is intended to explain the essence of obstinacy, interprets the reasons for its formation in an individual and gives simple recommendations on how to overcome this quality of character. If there is such a person in your family, then now you will know how to behave with him so as not to get into awkward and unpleasant situations.

What is obstinacy?

If you turn to the explanatory dictionary, then this concept is synonymous with stubbornness and self-will. However, an obstinate person is not always someone who knows how to insist on his own; rather, he is characterized by increased aggressiveness towards the people around him. Such a person wants his family and friends to notice his individuality, take into account his needs and fulfill all his wishes.

In fact, an obstinate person is always an egoist, since he strives, first of all, to satisfy his own needs. Perhaps at some moments in his life he is able to think about others, but only when his interests come into contact with the desires of others.

Obstinacy is not simple stubbornness. What is it expressed in? A person can defend his point of view, even if he sees the fallacy of his own conclusions. It is extremely difficult for him to admit that he is wrong. Sometimes a comical situation is created: a person continues to put forward new arguments against someone else’s opinion and becomes entangled in judgments. However, for such a person it is not so important what to say, but to whom and in what terms. This is a weak person for whom showing his human qualities is completely unacceptable. Almost always this person is inclined to subjugate others to his will. If he becomes a leader, he imposes his vision of life on his subordinates and mercilessly exploits them.

Reasons for formation

An obstinate character is necessarily the result of improper upbringing. If in childhood a child is allowed everything, dreams come true immediately, as soon as he has time to voice them, then soon parents should expect their child to develop such qualities as negativity towards everything that contradicts his desires, extreme stubbornness, arrogance, boasting , the desire to demonstrate superiority over others. Such a child subsequently does not know how to adequately communicate with other children and begins to offend them. It is hardly worth proving that he has few or no friends. Obstinate means focused on your ego, noticing only yourself.

Sometimes a child's character deteriorates as a result of the fact that his desires are not noticed by his parents. So the child unsuccessfully tries to attract attention to himself with various kinds of antics: out of spite, he spills milk on the table, refuses to go to bed at the appointed hour, calls him bad names and says nasty things to adults and peers.

Inability to interact with others

Have you ever thought about why an obstinate person is in most cases a problem for others? After all, no one sees themselves from the outside. The reaction of those nearby gives the person the opposite effect. It turns out that an overly stubborn person really needs “spectators”, a public that would appreciate his complex individuality.

Thus, the person asks for help, but in what way? She clearly lacks communication, real recognition of her abilities and talents, but she does this by deliberately pushing people away from her. It turns out to be a very confusing and painful chain of actions.

Obstinate man

He always wants to have exclusive power. It is almost impossible to come to an agreement with him. Sometimes in a conversation you feel how he wants to crush you with his imaginary rightness; it is useless to argue with him. Such people look down on others and do not recognize anyone's position. When they feel emotionally unwell, they take their anger out on those who are nearby at the moment.

Why is a wayward woman almost always doomed to loneliness?

You can often hear that this or that lady is obstinate. Which one is this? Is she necessarily a bitchy person? Not at all. An obstinate woman is, first of all, her own “saboteur”: she does not understand that with her actions and deeds she is destroying relationships with people near and dear to her heart.

In addition, she almost always strives for authoritarian leadership. This applies to both the family budget and relationships with men. And a representative of the stronger sex can rarely like such treatment. Not finding understanding in marital relationships, such a woman risks being left alone.

How to learn to be more tolerant?

An obstinate person is always a hidden trouble. If you look into the situation, it turns out that he himself needs the help and attention of loved ones. The following tips will be useful both to those in whose environment there is an overly stubborn person, and to individuals who, to one degree or another, suffer from a difficult character.

1. Do not try to forcefully resolve the situation. There is no need to demonstratively turn away or answer your opponent’s question with rudeness. Show tact and delicacy. Just imagine how difficult it is for your interlocutor.

2. Work on improving your own character. No matter how you are treated, you can always influence the current situation. Analyze your motives and actions: perhaps you also do not always act correctly and honestly.

It should be noted that an obstinate person is a slave of his own emotions; he causes pain to himself and others. To overcome extreme egoism in yourself, you need to be sincere.

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